How To Handle People Who Hurt You?

 

“The good leaders do the best thing in the prevailing situation whereas the great leaders do the right thing in any situation irrespective of the effects and outcomes.” ―Professor M.S. Rao

 

We are living in an imperfect world. We cannot expect people to be perfect and ethical. We must understand this reality and move accordingly. When you are wrong, apologize and exit gracefully. We live in a materialistic world. We compete with others to ensure our existence and survival. We make many mistakes in life. We make mistakes either consciously or unconsciously. We must realize our mistakes and apologize. It shows our maturity and wisdom. Additionally, we will build a better world.

 

Self-centered people hurt while others-centered people forgive others. When your expectations are high, disappointments are high, and humiliations are high.

 

No person is entirely good, and no person is entirely bad. Love is the only solution in this world. Forgiveness is easier said than done. So, practice forgiving the people who hurt you. Life is never a straight line. It is full of appreciation, insults, and humiliations. You must take them in a balanced way. You must let go of unpleasant events and experiences and move on in your life.

 

Tit for tat is not the solution in this world. Forgive and forget the unpleasant events and experiences in your life to lead your life with purpose and meaning. When you forgive, you sleep peacefully and happily without any regrets. You maintain good health.

 

Takeaway: Forgiveness is not a weakness. It is a symbol of strength. So forgive and forget the people who harmed you to lead your life mindfully. Don't carry bitterness in your life. Remember, forgiveness is a virtue. Life is great.

 

References

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