How to Come out of Your Toxic Family?

 

“I rose from humble origins with a toxic family background. When I was 18 years old, I dropped out of college to support my parents and joined the Indian Air Force. I had to struggle hard to earn my livelihood. I sacrificed my personal time, invested a portion of my monthly salary and resources, and acquired several qualifications including DME, BSc, MA, MBA, PGDCLL, and PGDBM. I earned my Ph.D. in 2011. I understand the pain of life. I am a self-made man. I have come to know that there's no such thing as a free lunch.” ―Professor M.S. Rao

 

I was born into a toxic family and grew up in a toxic environment. My childhood was like a hell. I enjoyed reading books. I did not have many friends. I supported my parents in a tea stall. I was not getting the right ambiance to pursue my education. I dropped out of college to support my parents and joined the Indian Air Force as a soldier. The military life was tough and challenging but I found it far better than my toxic family. I enjoyed interacting with positive people in the Indian Air Force. I became organized and grew as a disciplined citizen and as a leader. Here is how you can come out of your toxic family background. Connect with healthy and positive people. Explore options to come out of it. Forgive your toxic family and siblings. Support them as much as you can because you were born into it. Forget the bad memories. Engage with creative people. Invest in healthy relationships. Inspire people around you. You cannot choose your parents and children. You can only choose your spouse and career. You can choose your friends wisely who can support you. So, don't regret being born into a toxic family. Don't carry emotional baggage. Forgive them and forget negative people. Spend your time with the people who support you. Don’t feel guilty that you were born to toxic parents. It is better to separate rather than to live with toxic family members and suffer.

 

 

Conclusion

 

Lotus blooms from the mud. Some of the greatest people were born into toxic family background and inspired the world. They chose to be different and became trailblazers. Stay inspired.

 

References

https://www.amazon.com/See-Light-You-Spiritual-Mindfulness/dp/1949003132 https://youtu.be/P7fCvMNyhyk

 

 

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Professor M.S. Rao

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