“Be leery of silence. It
doesn't mean you won the argument. Often, people are just busy reloading their
guns.” ―Shannon L. Alder
Disputes are common in
families and friends. They are expected in personal, professional and social
life. What is expected is to demonstrate composure and maturity to think
through coolly to search solutions for the disputes. In this post, I discuss
resolving disputes privately in a gracious manner to leave a mark for others to
follow.
Settle Disputes Privately
Parents must distribute their
wealth to children before relationships go sour. It helps keep families intact
to leave a better legacy. Some parents are indecisive resulting in litigations
and infighting in children. Observe the following tips to settle disputes
privately. Understand the issue clearly. Set SMART goals. Be tough-minded but reasonable
in terms and conditions. Be flexible to give away something to take something from
the dispute. Empathize with others. Listen to all sources but make your own
decision based on your head, heart, gut, and intuition. Strive for a win-win
outcome. After resolving the dispute avoid discussing it with others to enable
the other person to lead a happy and peaceful life.
Conclusion
Don’t get provoked by others.
Use your ethics and etiquette to win your argument rather than to cut the corners.
You will be remembered in history for your principles and philosophies. So,
maintain impeccable integrity to resolve disputes privately. Life is short. Why
should we make it sour? Let us make it sweet by settling disputes privately
through discussion and dialogue. Life is great.
Reference
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Million Global Leaders’ URL: http://professormsraovision2030.blogspot.in/2014/12/professor-m-s-raos-vision-2030-one_31.html
Life is great!
Professor
M.S. Rao
Founder of MSR Leadership
Consultants, India
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