Tuesday 15 March 2016

“Don’t be a Prisoner of the Past; Be an Architect of Your Future!” ―Professor M.S.Rao



“Every time you are tempted to react in the same old way, ask yourself if you want to be a prisoner of the past or a pioneer of the future.” ― Deepak Chopra


There are some people who brood over their unpleasant past. They get into negative zone and get depressed finally. Instead, they must look at the future with optimism. Research shows that people waste 30 percent of their precious time by thinking about their unpleasant past that cannot be changed. Hence, people must explore solutions for their problems. Their future solely depends on their mindset and the way they look at the world. They must start a new course on a clean slate. They must always think of ‘what next’ rather than ‘what went wrong’. They must find out why and where things went wrong to learn lessons to become smarter and wiser. They must pioneer their future instead of becoming prisoners of their past.

When you observe all successful leaders including Abraham Lincoln, Mahatma Gandhi, and Nelson Mandela, they underwent lots of trials and tribulations. They did not look where they fell but they looked where they slipped and bounced back from their failures. 


Tools to Avoid Becoming a Prisoner of the Past

Steve Jobs once remarked, “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma-which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” Here are some tools and techniques to avoid becoming a prisoner of the past:
  • Let go off your unpleasant past. Focus on what you can do, not what you cannot do.
  • Embrace uncertainty. Don’t react, but act to the circumstances.
  • Learn when to hold and when to fold. There is a thin line separating the both. It requires immense judgment and intuition to decide when to hold and when to fold.
  • When things go wrong repeatedly, lie low for a while and wait an appropriate opportunity to make things fall into place.
  • Ensure that you reorganize your body and brain constantly with your new experiences.  
  • Try meditation or yoga or go for regular physical exercises to energize your mind and body.
  • Network with the right people.
  • Have an attitude of gratitude.
  • Look at the door that is opened.
  • Fight for pretty things, not petty things.
  • Look for possibilities, not impossibilities.
  • Learn to make choices and commitments. Take action keeping tomorrow in mind.

Remember, every dog its own day. God throws challenges and offers opportunities to everybody. In fact, challenges test your abilities and enlarge your capabilities. Challenges unlock the leader in you. Hence, be bold to face the challenges. At the same time, be prepared all the time to explore opportunities. 


Be an Architect of Your Future!

"The empires of the future are empires of the mind." — Winston Churchill

Life is a circus with ups and downs. Nobody can predict the future. However, you can pioneer your future with proper planning, preparation and execution. Be mentally prepared for distractions and surprises. Align yourself whenever you are thrown out of gear with patience and perseverance to accomplish your goals and ambitions.

Fate is something happens automatically whereas destiny is something you create. Precisely, destiny is in your hands.

To summarize, let bygones be bygones. Don’t think about the unpleasant past that cannot be changed, don’t worry too much about the future that cannot be predicted. Instead, think about today which is in your hands. To conclude, don’t be a prisoner of the past but be a pioneer of your future to make your life exciting. Life is great!


"The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new." — Socrates




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Sunday 13 March 2016

“Why Do Some People Exploit the Weaknesses of Others?” ―Professor M.S.Rao



“I call for a march from exploitation to education, from poverty to shared prosperity, a march from slavery to liberty, and a march from violence to peace.” ― Kailash Satyarthi


Several conflicts arise in the society due to various reasons. One of the causes of conflict is when people exploit others’ weaknesses instead of helping them. Some people take undue advantage out of others’ adversities thus causing further hardships and agony. Although everyone knows that it is wrong to take advantage when others are in problems, people still resort to such activities. This article addresses the individuals who exploit others’ weaknesses and offers cautious message to the exploiters and manipulators.


Life is a Circus

Life is a circus with ups and downs. We have friends and relatives to share our sorrows and happiness. What happens when one of your friends and relatives exploit your weaknesses when you are in deep distress. What happens when the person who you trust lets you down? It is difficult to digest and cope up with the situation indeed! It causes further stress and lands people in depression leading to suicides. Additionally, problems come in battalions. When your time is bad all problems come at a time. When you intend to handle one problem, other problems crop up simultaneously. In this scenario, instead of surrendering you must learn to fight against the odds. Remember the slogan ‘when the going gets tough, tough gets going’. Therefore, the best within you will come up when you are forced to the corner. You tend to think from multiple perspectives to overcome the challenges.  You unlock your potential. Finally, the real leader within you comes to the surface. Here are some tools to avoid being exploited by others:

Tools to Avoid being Exploited by Others
  • Don’t trust others blindly.
  • Don’t reveal all your weaknesses to others.
  • Don’t get dejected.
  • Be confident.
  • Be mentally prepared to encounter unforeseen challenges.
  • Be assertive. Raise your voice against irregularities.
  • Don’t indulge in self-blame and self-pity.  
  • Don’t brood over the problems. Explore solutions to resolve them.

Remember, luck comes with interest while bad luck comes with bonus. But don’t lose your heart. Be brave to face the challenges squarely.


Caution to Exploiters and Manipulators

“There is always temptation to cheat in all of us. But it is up to your willpower.” ― Boris Becker

Don’t be overambitious. Don’t be egotist. Don’t be narcissistic. Don’t be selfish. On the other hand, be compassionate. Don’t be a "jerk" but be an "altruist."  Be others-centered, not self-centered. Remember, neither success nor failure is permanent. You may be in a very strong position today but tomorrow you may be in a weak position. Remember, every dog has its own day. Hence, think of pros and cons before exploiting others. Don’t let the negative thoughts enter into your mind. Fill your mind with positive thoughts to get energized.

At times the exploiters and manipulators think that they are smart enough to cheat and exploit others. They must know the slogan, ‘although the righteous man falls ten times, he rises, but the wicked man never falls twice’. If they still resort to exploitation and manipulation, it means their days are numbered.


Exploitation is Unavoidable

“Almost all of our relationships begin and most of them continue as forms of mutual exploitation, a mental or physical barter, to be terminated when one or both parties run out of goods.” ― W. H. Auden

Exploitation is everywhere in the world. As long as individuals with negative attitude live, the exploitation exists. Remember, exploitation is unavoidable. You must take your own precautions from exploiters and manipulators to lead a happy and exciting life.

Don’t suffer silently with exploitation. Face with confidence. Fight for your rights. It is your life and you must make your call based on your convictions.  Remember, there are no permanent friends and enemies in life. Life is all about rapid changing equations. Learn to face the challenges squarely. Fight to the finish. Take your battle to its logical end.


Conclusion

“Avoid those who seek friends in order to maintain a certain social status or to open doors they would not otherwise be able to approach.” ― Paulo Coelho, Manuscript Found in Accra

Empathy is key to resolving several conflicts globally.  Being ambitious and confident are signs of good health but being overambitious and overconfident are signs of ill health. In fact, overambition and overconfidence are the worst enemies to individuals. Hence, people must understand the difference and adopt the right means and methods to gain acceptance in the society to grow as healthy leaders.  To conclude, it is not ‘might is right’ but ‘right is right’ is right. Satyamev Jayate!


“We live in a world where unfortunately the distinction between true and false appears to become increasingly blurred by manipulation of facts, by exploitation of uncritical minds, and by the pollution of the language.” ― Arne Tiselius
“In war, the strong make slaves of the weak, and in peace the rich makes slaves of the poor.” ― Oscar Wilde




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Recipient of 10th International Prestigious Sardar Patel Award―2015
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Saturday 12 March 2016

“Why is the Quality of Research in India Inferior to Other Developing Countries?” ―Professor M.S.Rao



“Research is what I'm doing when I don't know what I'm doing.” ― Wernher Von Braun


Recently I had the opportunity of attending the authors’ conference organized by a prestigious publication in India. As an author of 30 books with 250 publications in international journals and magazines, I thought it was a great opportunity to attend and interact with others, and to understand the latest trends and developments in the publishing industry. I am aware that the quality of research in India is not as strong as the developed countries. But I came to know in the conference that the quality of Indian research is inferior to other developing countries in the world. Here are my views on this topic:  


Reasons for Poor Research in India

There are several reasons for poor research in India. The funding by government is not adequate. There are politics and bureaucratization in Indian research. Some of the researchers are not equipped with research tools and techniques to pursue quality research in India. Above all, there is a lack of research ambience in India. When you look at some of the Indian researchers, they excelled in western countries especially in America due to ambience, facilities and network. They brought laurels to our country. It shows that Indians have the attitude and aptitude for research for lack the right infrastructure, facilities, funding, ambience and opportunities in India.


Be Visible or Vanish!

“Having instant feedback on twitter to research material I'm considering is an enormous help.” ― Sara Sheridan

It is unfortunate that the visibility of Indians in research is lower than the other developing countries. That means Indians don’t market themselves on social media. In fact, social media is an effective tool to enhance visibility for research. Currently the slogan is ‘be visible or vanish forever!’. Hence, Indians must make use of social media tools and techniques to promote and market their research. There are many websites that help enhance visibility of research including ORCID URL: http://orcid.org/0000-0003-1855-7969 and KUDOS. URL: https://www.growkudos.com/profiles/9351. They help enhance visibility and citations for the published research.  They must be aware of altmetrics that helps the authors and researchers to track their research and reach of their articles. Altmetrics assesses the impact of research and publications.


Are Indians Shy to Market Themselves?

Indians are culturally shy to market their goods and services as they often think that it is showing off. There is nothing wrong in marketing themselves. Remember the slogan, ‘more display; more sales’. Hence, they must avoid cultural inhibitions, and must market and promote themselves to get noticed. When American authors start writing books, they immediately market their titles and work on social media. It helps brand themselves and promote their books to become bestsellers globally. In contrast, Indians market their titles and books only after publication of their books. It makes a huge difference in marketing and promoting of their books. Additionally, most Indian researchers and authors think that marketing their research is the job of their publishers. It is not correct. As researchers and authors, they must also be very active on social media to promote their research to enhance their visibility.


Research and Teaching in India

“What is research, but a blind date with knowledge.” ― William Henry

There are too many politics involved in research in India. There is lack of recognition for researchers in India. There is no much importance attached even in educational institutions. Indian educational institutions want research only on paper and CVs, not in reality. They don’t count the amount of time invested in quality of research. Indian educational institutions count only the number of teaching sessions conducted. There is a step-motherly treatment for researchers in India. In fact, teaching and research must go together to add value to education. In western countries, more importance is accorded to research than to teaching and training. In fact, research provides the adequate platform for the educators to share their knowledge effectively in the classroom. When students raise questions in the classroom, the educators do research and come back to classrooms with more confidence to share their knowledge with students. Hence, teaching and research are interwoven. Above all, there must be industry-academia interaction in India.


Conclusion

“Research serves to make building stones out of stumbling blocks.” ― Arthur D. Little

If we emphasize on quality research, India can become a strong country in the world. Research is the foundation of any country. It is the knowledge counts, not money. Currently knowledge workers are more respected globally. And to enhance knowledge, it is essential to emphasize on quality research.


“The color of leadership is bright orange.  The color of leadership research is slate gray.” ―  Jerry Hunt, Texas Tech University



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